My son was diagnosed with autism (Asperger's Syndrome) when he was 6 years old. He is 22 now and I am being told by his therapist that he now suffers from OCD. She recommended this website so that I can be more educated about his condition. He and I live in the same house. His older brother and younger sister have their own places. My husband passed away in January so I am now dealing with this by myself. He completed his Associate's Degree over the past two years and now its time to get a job, otherwise there will be nothing productive happening in his life. He is manipulating me and doing everything he can to avoid this task. I am trying, trying, trying to be patient and I do understand that this is difficult for him due to the social anxiety. I don't know what to do to help him move forward without disrespecting his disability. Can anyone offer some advice?